<p><a href="https://pad.fabmob.io/s/JQCegKzxG">Dating Horror Stories</a></p>
<p><a href="https://codimd.communecter.org/s/EJujOzJe0"><span lang="en-US">Th</span><span lang="ru">e Girl That You Don’t Feel The Need To Game: Diamonds In the Rough</span></a></p>
<p><a href="https://naya.com.np/post/p17598455052bw1n">How To Fight Feminism</a></p>
<p><a href="https://okcupid.hashnode.dev/people-dont-like-confronting-reality">People Don’t Like Confronting Reality</a></p>
<p><a href="https://md.infs.ch/s/Pi3qQqv-I">The Flimsy Excuse</a></p>
<p><a href="https://hedgedoc.inqbus.de/s/XJZqh9s3N">The Average Frustrated Chump Mantra</a></p>
<p><a href="https://docs.skunkwerks.at/s/-GaQ-14QN">Alpha Resistance</a></p>
<p><a href="https://md.interhacker.space/s/e8mHH_7Vs">The Fake It Till You Make It Mantra</a></p>
<p><a href="https://md.ccc.ac/s/rywjIi7te">Independence Day</a></p>
<p><a href="https://frame.gargantext.org/s/H1HFRGzZeg">The 3 Date Rule</a></p>
<p><a href="https://md.rappet.xyz/s/T3hBS0tVl">Bill Maher’s Strange Sudden Feminist Outcry Against Jackie O</a></p>
Then you go on to tell the guys here how to appear confident and secure. That’s exactly what “The Rules” say to women. Basically that they know the reader must be needy and insecure, else they would not pick up such an idiotic book. So then it goes on to describe exactly the scenarios you describe here. Amazing! Dating Hell revisited. No wonder people find it such a nightmare. :)
on February 8, 2008 at 11:14 pmGadfly
moi: Your entire life? Oh, I’m sorry. :D
on February 8, 2008 at 11:25 pmHope
If the guy she likes is significantly older, like ten years or more, she’ll be that much more on guard for beta bahavior.
It feels like wasted potential, like he could be an alpha if he bothered, but he didn’t have that kind of confidence.
Within these words lie a new kind of black and white. The terms alpha and beta are overly simplistic. But people like to put shit in neat categories — another primal trait.
It’s impossible for someone to be top dog and strong and in control all the time, or to be subservient and obedient and controlled all the time. Everyone has vulnerabilities, needs and limits.